Originally I let Shina’s 5/19 tirade slide. I surmised that sensible people would recognize her exaggerated displays are contrived and transparent. However, we’re not dealing with reasonable people at The Pound. Drum roll, please…
“I am just as shocked and saddened as y'all about BG closing the Pound. Never crossed my mind that would ever happen. Even though I won't be around I liked knowing you folks were still gathered here being friends. I'm thankful for Madison stepping up to keep it open. (((Madison))) I can't stand the thought of a trouble maker shutting down the Pound. It would seem like everything was for nothing and the bullies won after all. That would suck to no end.”
Hello? The polls were closed and Max wasn't asked to vote? What does that say about a “unanimous” policy?. What really “sucks to no end” is the histrionics! “Since Lola can push BabyGirl to shut down the Pound then you guys deserve to know what started it. So here goes.”
“Push BG to shut down the Pound?” Why? Over email? How incredibly infantile! Does spam mail “push” BG to “shut down” her inbox? What about junk mail? Does she send a letter to the Postmaster filled with expletives and padlock her mailbox? Sheesh! Baby Girl’s afraid of Santa Clause, a dentist visit is as frightening to her as the prospect of heart surgery is to most candidates, and the goon spends “time out” in the Hummer just because he tossed her “choco milk”. Is there anything that doesn’t “push” the traumatized drama queen over the edge?
“Lola and I started talking a lot a few months ago. When some assholes opened another hate blog I went searching for answers and found them. She couldn't accept my opinions about who owned it and why and decided to become my online Nanny. When I called her on it one night in chat with Max because she was only speaking up to correct or scold me she simply left. This was the second time she felt the need to "control" me. I wasn't having it. I politely emailed her and said I couldn't handle her strong personality but I wished her the best. She emailed me back to let me know I didn't own the market on hurt feelings. Ok fine we both didn't appreciate the others actions or opinions. More reason to part ways in my opinion and left it at that so she could at least have the last word. I'm giving like that lol no really I just didn't give a shit enough to reply. I'm really honest like that.”
“Online Nanny”? Too funny! What Shina needs is a Parasitologist, a scientist who studies organisms that survive at the expense of another organism. An evaluation could be conducted in relation to Shina’s complex life cycle as a leech and the subsequent environmental degradation in her polluted Ecosystem.
Shina couldn’t find answers if they were tattooed on her arm… she invents them! An extraordinary example is the 99.9% axe Shina was eager to grind that markedly deteriorated when I wouldn’t buy into her crazed indictments. I’m really honest like that!
“I didn't tell anyone not even BG about it. Wait I did barely mentioned it to Mabel on the phone one night but just barely. I had already made up my mind that if Lola was mentioned in email, invited to chats whatever I could be and was civil for the sake of our mutual friends and the Pound.
Lola couldn't do the same. Oh no she had to email and call everyone and talk shit about me to them. I was told even recently about it but continued to ignore her. I figured she'd get over herself soon enough. Wrong.”
This isn’t the least bit accurate. The breadth of what I said to Max, Louise, and Mabel was that I had lost trust in Shina. I did NOT elaborate and never spoke of her again until this missive was published! Max certainly didn’t need an explanation as he witnessed her comportment first hand. As far as I was concerned, Shina was a persona non grata and the distance between her and I was sufficient and welcomed!
“Months later I get a call from BG. Her computer was down and she wanted me to check her email and I did. What's in her inbox? An email from Lola. I said BG I don't feel comfortable reading this email to you. She asked why and I told her. She was like but I haven't heard from her in so long you gotta read it to me and I did.”
Shina told Mabel she had been informed about the content of the email. She didn’t say she retrieved it from BG’s inbox. It’s documented in the mashtatersaddict correspondence. Furthermore, I did NOT communicate with BG through text message or email on a personal level. Anything Francesca said to the contrary was creative reasoning on her part.
“Lola was blasting BG to hell for changing the admin passwords to the Pound. The only comment I made was "Yup that's Lola for ya" and laughed it off. You see the only admins still around for months in email or here were Max, BG and myself. All the others had emailed saying except Lola they've been busy with their personal lives etc. Since BG hadn't heard from her in a long time she assumed Lola was gone as well.”
This is patently false. Shina had no way of knowing which admins were around since she didn’t have access to StatCounter. Only Mabel informed everyone that she was busy with her personal life. In response to Mabel’s email, Louise wrote:”It’s been an ongoing anna nicole fiasco discussion for awhile and I’m sure it’ll go to other topics once this has run it’s course. And of course, we still have BG’s babies and the Goon to talk about! It's fun just hanging with the friends on the blog. :)” - 4/3/07A copy of that response went to GoombahsInc just two weeks before Louise was locked out.
Max, Louise and myself stayed in touch, as we always did either through IM or email. Text messages and emails from Max to BG were ignored.“The reason the passwords were changed was one night someone posted porn on the blog and me and Max were offline. So BG calls Mabel to get the passwords
since that's the only phone number of an admin she still had other than mine and Max's. Mabel said she hadn't had the passwords in a long time so you'll have to call Sam. But before she called me they spent some time chatting and catching up. Which I was thrilled to hear because they both talked about missing the other.”
Puhleeze, get real! Why would BG call a former admin who hasn’t visited The Pound since December, had no intentions of coming back, and lost the information from a computer crash? DUH! Moreover, a disconnected phone call from BG was the impetus behind Mabel’s 4/3/07 email. Not to mention the pretense of that call was purportedly to get the phone number of a person BG talks to for hours on end three times a week. The shortest distance between two points is a straight line, so why the circuitous route? Perhaps it was to clarify a malicious rumor? “While I have ya on da phone, I hear ya don’t come around cuz you’re worried about da goon”?
“When BG called me I had no idea what the passwords were off the top of my head because
I only log in when nobody else is around and there's a problem which is rare.”
ROTFLMAO! How does an admin determine WHEN NOBODY ELSE IS AROUND? Snort! Where’s the time clock? Does Shina have ESP? Cause she didn’t have access to StatCounter! Shina didn’t KNOW Max had already been away on two searches before April. Shina didn’t KNOW I did the Jessica Lunsford entry. Shina didn’t KNOW Patsy was in attendance even though she responded to her remarks. Shina didn’t KNOW I fixed Toonces blockquotes. Shina didn’t KNOW I witnessed the argument she carried on with herself, (cough) I mean 'Not a Dentist'. So how did Shina KNOW when to log in? Her argument is unrealistic!
“But I found them eventually and gave them to her. She said she'd never remember those and to please change them to ****** and I did. She then asked me to email Max the new one for her because her laptop froze again and I did. It was short and sweet because I could barely keep my eyes open. But I wrote -The passwords were changed to something BG could easily remember in case
something like tonight happens again and per BG please don't give these to anyone before talking to her first. What I should have added was if any of the old admins want access again we'll have to change the password because the new one is also to her email. Not that she didn't trust the others as much it was simply she didn't know them as well as she did us.”
The porn link was posted on 4/13/07. Max reported it as spam!
“Admin...For some reason I don't think that last link is safe...lol”
Messy 04.13.07 - 4:11 pm
“You are so right Messy! Sorry to take so long to catch it.”
Admin 04.13.07 - 7:17 pm
Max left on 4/15/07!
From: Max
Date: Sat, 14 Apr 2007
”No, BG has not replied to any of my text messages. I just sent her another one to let her know we are leaving tomorrow morning. “The password was changed on 4/17. Louise and I waited a week for Max to return from his search only to advise us that he wasn’t allowed to share the password without unanimous approval from the remaining three admins. If those were not his explicit instructions, then take it up with him!
The spectacle was getting more humorous by the day with the linchpin being the most innovative. Baby Girl was challenged by a three syllable word that had worked like a charm for The Pound and Haloscan... “smoothsailing”! Apparently, it's a tricky one to remember. No doubt it's right up there with Stolichnaya and schadenfreude. Snort!How many years did it take Francesca to learn how to breathe?
The password to StatCounter was different, which Shina didn’t have. She circumvented that barricade by taking an alternate route and opening a new account with StatCounter on 5/8:8th May 2007 - 11:57:22
Tennessee, Nashville
adsl-241-139-67.bna.bellsouth.net
www.haloscan.com/members/template.php
www.haloscan.com/comments/babygirlsbrutus/test/
She could have asked Max for the password to the original account and simply modified it. Go figure!
“So because BG didn't hunt down Lola and ask her permission to change her blog's passwords first Lola is handing her ass to her via email. Not only that but Lola wanted her to know she wasn't pleased that she called Mabel in the first place when she should have just called her Interior Decorator, didn't hunt down Louise, hadn't returned Max's IMs and emails, figured out Sam was an admin (*she knew along with the rest of the admins) (because I treated D** so poorly on the blog..please) and she could only imagine what caused these actions from her.”
Let’s get one thing straight, my email was nonconfrontational and made no demands. I expressed my feelings about what was done in Standard English. All the spin Shina or BG puts on it will never diminish that basic fact!
“When BG heard that she was blown away. She was like uh? what? If I had known she was still around I would've given her the passwords damn.”
Both Shina and BG KNEW Louise was still around and to this date neither of them have contacted her!
The irony is that Francesca and Chrishina both insisted that Louise wasn't around when she was posting as Patsy. They currently allow posters to believe that I have commented anonymously at The Pound for the last four months! Why? Do they enjoy making fools out of their friends or do they simply lack the integrity to be up front about it?
Let me see if I have it straight... when you're there, your're not; and when you're not, you are? How unique!
“She and I
assumed the other admins were in on this email since Lola made it her business to scold BG on their behalf (ass u me) and she was very hurt by the very thought of everyone being pissed at her over a misunderstanding. It also appears Lola was just waiting for a reason to jump BG because Lola's email was mostly lies and carefully worded bullshit.”
Never did I presume to speak on behalf of anyone but myself and to infer otherwise is grasping at straws. Furthermore, the “bullshit” was manufactured in BG’s erroneous response, which conveyed the distinct impression that Francesca was out of touch with reality big time.
“Me being me I email everyone because it was implied I had BG lock everyone out which was a far cry from the truth. First of all the idea of me trying to make BG do a damn thing is just hilarious in itself, but also I still cared deeply for all of them and wanted them to know that regardless of what some self righteous windbag said.”
Shina being Shina, she emailed Mabel forwarding copies to Max and BG. She requested that one of them send the communiqué to Louise. I don’t care how you slice it, there were numerous indications that Louise participated in the current discussions at The Pound. In the event Francesca was in a ‘Dirty Martini’ daze, Shina could have refreshed her memory because it’s all there in black and white! Locking out Louise was not an oversight by any stretch of the imagination. It was intentional and while I think it’s a damn shame, everyone else seems to ignore that salient point! It’s a glaring indication of how “deeply” Shina cared for Louise!
“After we heard back from the others (minus one) saying huh? we love you too and have no problems and are just busy with life we then realized Lola was just trying to stir the pot.”
Excuse me? What others? The lone individual that responded was Mabel who by virtue of her own admission was pissed at being dragged into something that had absolutely nothing to do with her. DUH! Who’s the pot stirrer?
“The more she thought about someone else telling her how to run her own blog and demanding answers from her the more it pissed her off and she left Lola know it. Especially since Lola was so outraged that some others done this very thing to BG before BG told them to hit the door.”
Give it up already!
” It's your blog and you have every right to run it as you see fit, but I know of no-one associated with the site that deserves such shabby treatment, which is contrary to what you preach on the board.” -5/1/07 That's what I wrote. Read much?
“Lola responds with some of the craziest bullshit I've heard in a long time. She went so far as to copy and paste a convo between an Admin and a poster here to prove she was still around. But there's a huge problem with this line of bull she's selling because I WAS THE ADMIN that night she was claiming to be and can prove it with IPs :roll eyes: I also went back further and realized Lola told many lies in that email. She wasn't commenting or stopping by everyday like she threw in BG's face, hell she made one comment in about three months! I told BG this and she told Lola to go fuck herself BG style.”
The “huge problem” is actually Shina’s hypothesis. If two or more admins fix mistakes, how does one know which admin is being addressed by a poster?
”I told BG this…” is an admission that Shina deliberately convinced BG that I was AWOL! At the risk of sounding redundant, Shina had NO WAY of determining if I was there! How does Shina account for a hundred visitors to The Pound on a day when there are eight comments, hmmm? How does Shina account for the fact that some of those visitors NEVER comment? Shina couldn’t account for any of the things she spewed; either because she was incapable of ascertaining the facts or she intentionally twisted them to suit her program!
“I haven't heard anything else and there's probably more to the story. After hearing back from most everyone else that all is good as gravy I was done giving Lola the attention she was seeking. Also I don't ask about online drama anymore because honestly I'm over the Katie's, Anita's, Loretta's and Lola's on the Internet, seriously fucking over them.”
Shina knows full well there’s a lot more to the story. Again, exactly who is “most everyone else”? The only person Shina heard back from had flown the coop five months prior! It doesn’t get any funnier when you think about it. The theory that receiving a response from a disinterested party has any significant meaning is as pointless as Shina saying she heard back from the Pope that “all is good as gravy”!
Shina isn’t “over” any of the individuals referenced above. The affirmation of her spiteful, abnormal, obsessive conduct is documented in her vindictive track record. Bless her venal, self-absorbed heart!
“I maybe out of line for putting this out here, I'm sure some will say so, but you know what I was never afforded privacy when people had their fill of my crap so Lola ain't getting common courtesy from me either. This way at least you'll understand the comments Shannon keeps posting per BG. Also people who are great at manipulating others could take this opportunity (especially if the doors close) to sell a line of bull since nobody has stated the truth and only hinted at the problem. So yeah there ya go.”
Shina’s favorite role of victim cuts to the heart of the matter. She deflected blame onto unknown entities that have no connection to her pernicious campaign against me. It’s a quintessential formula that Loretta employs with abandon. Shina’s reference to the new 'Shannon' poster reveals that she’s familiar with who is posting under that nic. It’s a depraved pantomime that’s being played out to a captive albeit shallow audience.
“I'm not suggesting we fight out our opinions because I'm sure many here are friends with Lola and that's cool. I'm just telling it like it happened. If you're offended by me well I'm just sorry.”
”Malice is of the boomerang character, and is apt to turn upon the projector.” ~William Makepeace Thackeray
“It leaves me wondering if something else has happened or if BG has just had her fill of control freaks with an agenda.
Either way thank you BabyGirl for putting up with everything you have for the Pound. You're an awesome friend and I love ya. Never forget
I'm only a phone call away.
Maddy keep in mind this is only one ounce of the tons of bullshit BG has dealt with being the Pound owner. You may want to take that into consideration, just sayin' because I care.
I need a drink and a bottle of Advil.
I was emailed the passwords out of the blue one day. The admins had went to BG and asked for me to have access as a sign of trust. I was very appreciatative of their gesture. Even still I never signed up to be an Admin.”
Too funny! I haven’t a clue which admins “had went to BG” but it’s a disgrace that Shina habitually dishonors any “sign of trust” she’s been afforded.
“Should I delete again? Maybe but I'm not gonna.”
Chrishina 05.19.07 - 5:58 pm
Clap, Clap, Clap.
”The venom that chills and curdles the warm current of life in man is secreted only in creeping and cold-blooded creatures; and the inveterate malignity that never forgets or forgives is found only in base and ignoble natures, whose aims are selfish, whose means are indirect, cowardly, and treacherous.”~George Stillman Hillard
"A friend is someone who is there for you when he'd rather be somewhere else."
- Author Unknown
“Sam, can you take over as ADMIN? Or would it be too much to ask (time wise)?
